Of course, she has no idea Atieno , Njeri or Chebet even exists somewhere in the heart of Nairobi ; and that she spends her money keeping her husband entertained, and well-oiled that he is already developing a pot belly. A Nigerian man will smash you, plant his seeds deep inside of you and then take a walk back to Lagos; leaving you to raise that child alone, like some kind of foreign investment. I am kidding. Of course, not all Nigerians are Nigerians.
I know quite a number who are pretty straight forward. It helps that with little modernization, and quid, Somalis are moving from dusty villages to the city, and are willing to date women from other tribes.
So why Somali men? They say Somali guys are generous; that the moment you date them, they assume all responsibilities of a husband, pay your rent, buy you a decent ride and give you monthly allowance to make sure you smell good. Did I mention that Nigerians love to trek here in Nairobi? As harsh as it sounds, many West African nationals illegally staying in Kenya are reported to be cons, pimps, or yahoo boys and once they suck you dry, they leave many ladies desperate in love and possibly vanish into thin air.
We have come up with a few possibilities why Nairobian slays desperately latch onto West African men, take a look;.
This article is not meant to spread hate towards Nigerian men staying in the country, but to give an insight on the possibilities why some Kenyan ladies fall for the West-African Nationals. Many Kenyan lasses have mentioned how they constantly get swept off their feet in a fraction of seconds whenever Naija men promise them something Kenyan men might financially struggle to offer; for instance a flashy lifestyle and since some women value material things over loyalty and love, they are bound to give a quick yes!
It is alleged that no Kenyan man can match up with a Nigerian man in terms of sweet words. A simple thought that a West-African national took it upon himself and settle in Kenya is enough to woo a money-hungry lass and staying in an established neighborhood is a plus and with just a few financial transactions and dinner dates, a naive girl can easily find herself hooked and unwilling to let go at any cost.
A few weeks after earning their trust, most financially established ladies notice the expensive gifts drying up, and the woman who is deeply smitten will turn to be the sole provider in the relationship. These cover-up for the fact that most look like South African Xhosa bushmen. If he loves you, he would want the whole world to know.
Most women drawn to Babatundes also claim they are bullies where it matters- the bedroom. Kenyan women are known to bend rules and tolerate things from Nigerian men that if it were to be asked of them by the Omondis, Musyokas, women empowerment crusaders and feminists would tweet all days and even take to the streets. It is a little wonder that while they are tripping over the Naija boys, Nigerian men on the other hand go for them for very different reasons.
To them, Kenyan women are easy to net and lay. Wooing a Nigerian woman is like skinning a cat. A Kenyan woman on the other hand just needs a few of the panty dropper drinks and she will be staring at your ceiling the same night. In Nigeria, women do not spend a dime in a nightclub. Nigerian men are taken by Kenyan women who have so embraced empowerment that they are willing to foot bills just to appear woke and independent.
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